Scenes from a 26th birthday

Truthfully, 26 was a hard one to come to terms with.


For some reason this one felt big. UPPER twenties, you say? Nah, I'm pretty comfy at 25. 
But the day came, as it does every year on April 12th, and let me tell you—Drew couldn't WAIT to give me my birthday present. My goodness. For literally two months the guy has been asking, "Want your birthday present tonight?!" He was so excited to give it to me. So I stayed up the night before to unwrap it the minute it turned midnight on my birthday. It was an Apple Watch! I've wanted one for about two years! I like the idea of tracking my runs with it, and also I just really wanted to look cool like all the other peeps who wear them. Drew has had one since Christmas (spoiled brat), and I've been jealous of his ever since. 

But, of course, he didn't just get me ANY old Apple Watch. Nope. This particular color had actually been discontinued, but he knew I reaaaaalllly wanted this one, so he found it. I love it. 

After staying up late to open the watch, Drew had the brilliant idea to get up early and go to BREAKFAST. I do love a good Thursday morning trip to Cafe Capp. 


BUT when the alarm went off at 6 a.m. (Drew usually doesn't have to wake up until about 7:45) he was really regretting this idea. Somehow, he did eventually manage to get out of bed. We took Arden to my mom's so that she could take her to Lindsay's house and we could go eat solo. (Arden isn't always a ray of sunshine when she has to get up early, so she didn't get the invite to breakfast.) I'm fairly certain that Drew was half asleep the entire meal, but the guy gets an A for effort—that's for SURE. 


 Cafe Cappuccino appropriately makes a really great cappuccino. And of course, you better believe I got a giant chocolate chip pancake. BIRTHDAY BREAKFAST, GO BIG.


You know, I don't love attention. I'm not really a fan of my birthday in general. In fact, when our boss said "Happy birthday, Kaylee!" I said "I like your dress!" 

I didn't choose the awkward life, the awkward life chose me. 

I'd much rather it be someone else's day. That probably has something to do with me being a 9. But my sweet friend Hannah hung up some pom pom streamers on my office door and that's fun. She also brought me my SECOND cappuccino of the day in Starbucks form, and I'm definitely of the mind that you can't ever be over-caffeinated. That was a morning-maker. I'd also like to point out the pretty flowers Drew had sent to the office. That was a nice touch. 

For lunch my friends surprised me with a Chick-fil-a party and a pile of chocolate chip cookies—and I mean you truly, truly can't top that in my world. After all, I've said more than five times that my last meal will be Chick-fil-a. So that felt appropriate. 


I like my friends a lot. Even when they read embarrassing emails that I sent when I was a tiny, insecure intern aloud to a group of people on my birthday. ;) 

It's okay. Remembering that I like to get a large tea at Chick-fil-a made up for it in spades. 

For dinner, we went to my Mom's. She made a yellow cake with homemade chocolate icing and THAT is what dreams are made of. Then Drew and my sisters tried to get Arden to dance. Let me tell you, NOTHING has the ability to make you look/feel more dumb than a toddler. I stand by that statement. See video for evidence. 



When we got home I took my first bath in our new tub, ate more cake that we brought home from Mom's, and went to bed before 11. :) It was a really great birthday. 

We're about to go into a really busy season—not just at work, but in personal life, too, so I'm soaking up this quiet birthday weekend. It will be the last quiet weekend for a while...

April 21st | Long run & Kam's first wedding shower 
April 28th | Long run & Kam's second wedding shower (which I'm hosting)
May 6th | Half marathon day 
May 12th | Kam's wedding day!
May 13th | Mother's Day 
May 18th-20th | BIRTHDAY TRIP TO AUSTIN 
May 30th | Memorial Day weekend 
June 2nd | Wedding in North Carolina 

Phew! This introvert is tired just looking at that lineup.

So the standout weekend here is, of course, Kam's wedding weekend. BUT ALSO I'm really excited for May 18th. Drew and I took that day off of work and we're staying at this fun hotel at the Domain called Archer for the weekend. I also somehow managed to snag tickets for a comedy show that I've been dying to go to (Bobby Bones, anyone?) and other than that, I plan to spend the weekend shopping, eating fun brunches, and putting my feet up. 

Since my birthday falls so close to tax day and Drew is an accountant, we aren't usually able to make plans on the weekend right after. And since I can't miss my long runs this close to the race, there was no reason to plan a fun weekend trip until after May 6th, anyway. And with May 12th being Kam's wedding, May 18th it was. We haven't been able to make it to Austin just for fun in a pretty long time and I'm ready to be back. 

Thanks so much to everyone who pitched in to make my birthday grand. It was really such a good time, and it's days like April 12, 2018 that remind me how grateful I am for the people around me who make life fun. Even the mundane, non-birthday days have sunny skies with you people! XO. 

Pink bathroom no more

Everyone loves a good before and after post, am I right?
Well, ask and you shall receive.
Because after about 2 1/2 weeks of renovation, our pink bathroom is as it should be—a thing of the past.


We've still got a few things to do—for example, the shower curtain isn't even back up yet. It needs some color added in, a couple of new bath mats, a plug replaced, a few small touch-ups, etcetera, etcetera. But I thought why not give you a peek?

The whole reno was just as much of a headache as we thought it would be. Things get off schedule fast and then the disappointment ensues. But thank goodness we had a good contractor helping us out, otherwise this would've taken months. 
Previously, this bathroom had vinyl flooring. Not great and hard to keep clean. 
The new tile is from Lowe's. It's called "Style Selections Leonia Silver" in the 6x24 inch size. Check it out linked: here. It was cheap, which was its biggest selling point because every tile option we looked at was so expensive when you have to buy 130 square feet of it. I probably read a zillion reviews on this tile in particular, and my main worry was that it would be a cheap product in general. But so far, so good, and our contractor didn't have any trouble cutting it or laying it.
This dang vanity was a headache and a half. The matching piece of marble backsplash broke during shipping, and the manufacturer has a weird replacement policy. (Basically they won't send the replacement piece of marble backsplash to you in one piece—they have to send it to you in two pieces for you to glue together. Which would then look really cheap with a huge seam in the marble.) So I decided to do subway tile backsplash to match the shower surround. It wasn't exactly what I'd envisioned with the round mirror (which I'd already ordered at that point) but it works fine. Our contractor was impressed with the quality of the vanity and it looks nice, so it does the job. Check out the vanity linked: here. It was the most expensive piece of the bathroom remodel, but we couldn't beat the price since it came with the cabinet, undermount sink, faucet, hardware and the Carrara marble countertops. These seemingly small things add up FAST. 
This pendant light hanging in the center of the vanity is about to get replaced with two brass pendants linked: here. They'll hang on either side of the mirror instead of oddly off center like it is lining up currently. In this pic I'm standing in the center to try to illustrate just how off center it is—it really bugs. But it's gonna be cute!
Of course, the famous stained glass window had to go. We replaced it with a normal picture window and installed some really traditional style trim that I love. Learn how to do it yourself on this blog linked: here. 
 I love this tub. It's so much deeper than the old one and a lot prettier. See it linked: here. But if you get it, don't forget to buy this matching overflow drain piece in whatever finish you like best. You'll need it for the plumber to finish the installation. 
This subway tile is Arctic White by Daltile and the grout color is Oyster Gray. Linked here is the shower faucet trim kit we went with. As you can see, I really mixed metals with the chrome trim kit and the brass towel bar. I would've loved brass finishes on everything, not just the towel bars, mirror and brass pendants that are on their way, BUT quality brushed brass is expensive. So I decided to mix chrome and brass—which I actually think ended up looking fun! Plus, the brass accessories are easy switch outs if it ever goes out of style. 
As you can see, we cut it really close on the toilet fitting after having the vanity installed. Sheesh. Over there to the right of the vanity you can see where there's still a bit of electrical work to do.
 I wonder if I'll miss seeing myself from so many different angles.
NOPE.
We bought our towel bars and our mirror from CB2 which is Crate and Barrel's new more modern line. The mirror we bought with a Crate and Barrel gift card leftover from our wedding! But these super cool hex towel bars (linked here) were a snap purchase when we were visiting the Domain in Austin over Easter weekend. We stopped into their storefront there just to look around and ended up with two towel bars, the toilet paper bar and the hand towel hanger.
Here's a closer look at the second towel bar and toilet paper bar. I love them.
And I am obsessed with these towels that I got on sale at Anthropologie. I wanted the matching bath mat but $$$. I'm going to save my pennies and snag one soon. 

There's still a lot to be done to finish up this cutie little bathroom remodel—like adding add some color to make it look less "50 shades of gray"—but it'll get there! We've really had a lot of fun with it, and it makes our home so much more comfy and practical for us. I've wanted a bathtub that I could actually take a bath in since the day we moved in, and this factor alone is going to make our house feel more like home (the old tub drain was rusting out). Drew even bought me a box of bath bombs for Easter because he knew how pumped I've been to soak. Cute.

The pink bathroom was funky and fun, and we'll miss that novelty factor of it, but we are so happy to have a space that we are proud to show off. I'll update you as it gets closer to complete. 

Our 1950s Renovation Adventure

About 2 weeks ago Drew and I decided we are FINALLY going to renovate our 1950s pink bathroom, and right about then is when I remembered—oh shoot—I never shared the rest of our renovation with you. Our house has never been perfectly perfect and ready for you to see.

But here's the truth - I am now the proud mom of a one-year-old and a perfectly clean and pristine home just plain ain't gonna happen. So we may as well go for it.
So a little backstory on our cutie house:
It was built in 1958 and before us it only ever had one set of owners. I know, CRAZY. The family who was here before us raised their three children in this house. It was actually the original owners' daughter, Patti, who sold it to us. Her dad had passed away years before, and her mom could no longer live here on her own. The first time Patti walked us through it, she told us which room she'd shared with her sister growing up and explained all the different changes the house had gone through over the years. She even told us that when it was built, it was one of the first homes around here at all. She said back then it was a really rural area surrounded by land and cattle—which is wild because it's now a very, very large subdivision. It's incredible how storied this old home is.

How we stumbled into finding this gem is a fun story to tell. We started looking for a home back in February of 2016. Our duplex lease was coming to an end in March, and we were ready to take the next step and dive into the wonderful world of home ownership. The only problem: our budget was like $0. But really, it was low. If we wanted a nice house, then we were going to have to make it nice ourselves. Fast forward through about three weeks worth of frustration, tears and acceptance that we probably weren't going to find a home before our lease was up when we got a lead.

My Poppy (who lives in town) got to talking with his neighbor about our house search, and this neighbor mentioned that his cousin was entering a memory care facility. He said she owned a home that the family would probably be looking to sell in the near future and gave him the address, which he passed on to us. We were getting so many leads at that time that I didn't get too excited about it—after all, it was just an address and the house wasn't even on the market yet. In fact, the only picture of it I could find was one from Google Maps. It was really cute from the outside, and we were interested, but I didn't quite have the patience to wait for it to hit the market just to turn around and have to compete with other buyers. So one Saturday afternoon I dragged Drew over there and knocked on the door. Patti's husband answered and was so kind (considering we were perfect strangers asking to traipse through the house.) I remember so clearly when he yelled, "Hey, Patti, put your realtor hat on! It's time to show the house!"

I could not believe they let us in.

The house needed updating, that was clear, but it was so clean. I couldn't get over how well-kept everything was. This family had loved this house! After they showed it to us, we let them know we'd be making an offer and we asked them to please call us when they decided on a price.

Did I mention I was impatient? Because when a few days passed and they didn't call, we cooked up a plan to go in blind. My mom is a Closer at a title office, so she drew up a formal offer for us. Drew and I signed it and then I drove it over to the house, said a quick prayer and left it on their front porch. They called us back the next day and accepted the offer. It was an excellent deal for us—we couldn't believe it.

We closed a month later after all inspections came back clean—the house was ours. This is where the real work began, because we did NOT know how to renovate a home. And did I mention we were poor? Because we were. And renos are not cheap.

It was a long process. A lot of this work was done completely ourselves with the helping hands and expertise of those around us. We only hired out the texture on the walls and ceiling, the trim work, and the trim painting. Everything else—the demo, refinishing the floors, knocking out walls, a BEAM in the ceiling, putting up a new wall, painting (3 times, long story) was all us. And did I mention we found out we were pregnant about halfway through the project? It was a big three months.

So without further adieu—the before and after pictures:

ENTRY & DINING ROOM

The spindle wall was one of the very first things we took down. Late one night shortly after move-in, we got carried away peeling down this floral wallpaper and Drew decided to get out the sledgehammer and go for it. I'm so glad he did. I really hated the separation it created, and it was very obviously something that had been added here in the eighties. It just didn't belong and it had to go. 
This area with the carpet was previously the living room. The home was originally three bedroom two bath, but years prior they'd turned it into a two bedroom by knocking down the wall to the third bedroom and making this living room larger. This layout didn't work for us because we knew we wanted a few kiddos, so we actually put the wall back up to reinstate the third bedroom and turned this into the dining room.
As you can see that green carpet was covering up original hardwood floors. The wood definitely needed restoring, but after that they looked as good as new. 
Below is a better look at the wall we put back up. On the other side is now Arden's bedroom.
 Fun fact, with a lot of help from Drew's dad (who is so handy), we installed our own recessed lighting, too. 

LIVING 

You'll start to see here just how much paneling was in this home. In this room it was pretty classic wood paneling, but you'll also see wallpaper-covered paneling and painted paneling in other rooms throughout the house's before photos. This stuff was a bear to remove—I think we filled up two rolloff dumpsters of this stuff. But these are the joys of a DIY renovation.

The family previously used this space as their dining room. What you can't see is that, even though it was open to the kitchen, it was not open to the entryway and the old living room (the green carpet room). There was a hallway in between. We knocked that separating wall down to make the living, dining, kitchen and entryway one open space. This was SO scary because the hallway wall was load-bearing. I actually had to leave the house while Drew and his dad took it down because I was imagining the whole house caving in, but it turned out to be one of the best things we did. It completely changed the layout and allowed us to turn this oversized dining room into our LIVING ROOM! 
I thought about removing the toys from the picture, but this is REAL LIFE, PEOPLE. Welcome to our world. 
Below is a better look at that wall (left of the photo) that we removed to open up the whole layout. 
 
Here is Drew and his dad going for it and scaring me to death in the process.
The photo below was taken after the wall was mostly down. You can also see the beginnings of Arden's bedroom wall going up over there. (Hi, Lindsay!)

 KITCHEN

There aren't really many "before" shots of the kitchen because it pretty much looked....exactly like this "after" shot. This is a new sink faucet because the old one started to leak, and we got a new dishwasher last year because the one before this was on its last leg—but that's about all that's changed since we moved in. At some point in the past, the previous family put up this newer backsplash and installed these granite countertops. But, as you can see, the cabinets are original.
 

THE NEVERENDING HALLWAY

In the photo below, that first doorway on the left is the entrance to the kitchen. Since that wall is gone now, the hallway is so much shorter and less cave-like. Installing recessed lighting along here really helped lighten it up, too.
To take the photo below, I'm standing where that kitchen doorway used to be. To camouflage what's left of the wall, we had our trim guy build this wood casing (left) that almost looks like a post and a matching one on the opposite side of the room (behind where I was standing). I barely notice it there now.

PINK BATHROOM

Now for the famous pink bathroom. Before seeing this home, I'd never laid eyes on a pink bathroom in my life—so imagine my shock when we toured the house! After we tallied up the costs of the house updates that were completely necessary, we realized that this classic bathroom would have to stick around a while longer until we saved up enough cash money to finish it.

We did remove the floral paneling (yes, you read that correctly...wall paneling that was covered in a floral wallpaper print) and then textured and painted. We also got rid of the ceiling fan (which we thought was weird for a bathroom), replaced a light fixture, and installed recessed lighting.

Usually my towel holder up there on the right is holding rolled up clean towels, but we're out of clean towels—REAL LIFE.
The drain in this original cast iron tub is rusted out, so when Arden takes a bath we have to keep the water constantly running because it's constantly draining. What an adventure!
These mirrors CRACK ME UP. Look at those mirrored seams!
I can't make this stuff up, people—these light switches were really something. 
So. Many. Mirrors. 
Still so many...but a few less flowers.
In case you need another mirror. 
We've kept these pulls so far because, well, what on earth do you replace them with on this 50s vanity? They're too great. Haha. 
Another thing that's toast: this stained glass window.

NURSERY 

I already shared pictures of Arden's nursery here, but here's one shot in case you wanted a closer look at our wall-building handiwork

 GUEST ROOM

More patterned wall paneling! 
More light switches with character!
One sad thing that happened about 4 months after installing ALL NEW, FRESH SHEETROCK was that our house shifted and caused this rift in our guest bedroom. (It's the crack in the corner—the other splotch is from the sun setting in the windows.) We're discovering this is semi-normal for pier and beam houses built on soil like ours to shift and settle. It's a big bummer for sure, but we never had it repaired for fear it would just happen again. Eventually we'll build a shelving unit here. 

** Update, we had a drywall specialist come take a peek and he felt confident it was a pier and beam fluke. We had it fixed and we're good as new. :) 

MASTER BEDROOM

And, you guessed it, there was more patterned wall paneling in the master. But here's a twist: it had been painted over in here. All of this had to come down, too.
 We still haven't done a ton of decorating in our master (or the guest room, for that matter). We've been working our way back down the hallway, but I'm not super motivated to get either of them done—which is another reason I've been putting this post off. 

But, alas, here we are. Taking photos of shoes on the floor and nothing on the walls. Because, let's be honest, it'll be a while before I feel inspired to decorate in here. I have a baby these days. I do LOVE this Ikea dresser that the whole world owns. Get it. You'll love it, too. 
 Not much has changed in the ol' master bathroom since we moved in. It's still looking about the same. We did get a new door, toilet seat, fresh sheetrock, texture, and new paint...but that's it. Ps, our walk-in shower is on the lefthand side...but it's such a tight squeeze that I can't even get a photo. When I was super pregnant with Arden, I couldn't even stand in the bathroom to open the shower door because it wouldn't fit around my belly—I had to stand in the doorway to do it. Again, what an adventure.
This pencil sharpener is in my closet....I love the 50s. 

PLAYROOM

Admittedly the playroom is currently just a bonus area where we keep Emma at night and store some old junk. BUT, soon it will be turned into Arden's playroom. This space was the home's original garage that was converted into a den for the previous family. Even as a bonus space, the carpet, ceiling tiles, and wall paneling in here had to go. This ex-garage  didn't have original hardwoods, of course, so we laid laminate flooring ourselves. We also pulled down the ceiling tiles, and had it sheetrocked and textured.
There is a step down to get in there, but Arden has the hang of it these days. 
Patti and her husband left this calendar for us with our move-in date circled. It was the sweetest little move-in day surprise. We loved them!


That's the whole reno! Stay tuned because in a few weeks I'll hopefully be back with photos of the pink bathroom turned into a beautiful, FUNCTIONAL space from this century...I. CAN'T. WAIT.